The Question You Avoid When Your Life No Longer Fits


Hi there Most people know more than they admit. They may not know the whole answer. But they often know the question they are avoiding. That question might be simple. Is this still right for me? What am I tolerating? What am I pretending not to know? What would I change if I stopped waiting for permission? Avoided questions matter because they protect the current pattern. They allow things to continue. They keep discomfort at a manageable distance. Chris Argyris’ work on double-loop learning...